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Sarah Lavender Smith's avatar

Sam, thank you so much for recommending my recent unfiltered story—I'm really touched and grateful.

I relate to so much of what you wrote about community and connection, and it's why I make a point of getting out of the house to work in our local library on most days, where I inevitably see someone I know and chat with him or her. So many of us work remotely or independently from home, and it's lonely. I'm blessed to have a library in town that's a community hub with drop-in events for anyone.

Your essay made me think of my hometown of Ojai, California, which was much more Wobegon-ish in the 1970s when I was a kid, the kind of place where my mom was active in a gardening club, my dad was on a bowling league and in Rotary, and everyone knew everyone. My mom and her friends opened up a retail shop to sell kids' clothing and books, until high rents in the early 1990s drove them out of business. Now Ojai is a sought-after celebrity hub choked with day-trippers from Los Angeles, its shopping row full of expensive boutiques and galleries. Except for one store—which gives me hope and connection to my past. A locally owned general store called Rains somehow still is in business, as it has been since before I was born. It's the kind of place where you can still buy pants and underwear, gardening tools, and a housewares gift for your mother-in-law, all at a reasonable price. I think to myself that as long as Rains is still in business, the town is OK. Every time I revisit there, I make a point of stopping in and buying something.

Mike Hahn's avatar

I loved "Lake Wobegon Days" as a kid. One of the few books I read voluntarily during my school years. Thanks for the reminder... time to pick this one up again.

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